Same here.
I only use Micro Sol, and have done for the last 40+ years.
The 'Sol' is supposed to soften the decal, whilst the 'Set' is supposed to 'drawn down' the decal to conform to the surface detail.
I've found that the 'Sol', by itself, does both. If a decal is particularly thick, stiff or troublesome, then, like Andy, I apply further small amounts of 'Sol', using a soft paint brush.
Better to apply a little, as needed, and repeat as required, than apply one dose of a 'strong' solution which may damage the decal and / or paint finish.
And if in doubt about the quality, and particularly the age of the decals, then spray a clear gloss acrylic varnish (not Future ! )onto the sheet before use, and let it dry for at least 15 minutes.
BTW, vinegar and water, which are a similar base to decal solutions, works quite well too, although tests need to be made to get the 'mix' as required.