If you are going to compare the meteor to the 262, you have to look at what they were flying against. As you said, in the case of the Meteor it would have been intercepting the likes of the Tu-4, which was effectively a B-29, flying much higher and faster than anything the Allies had in WWII Europe. For that kind of target a 262 night fighter would have made sense, certainly, just as it did against the swift and elusive Mosquito. But against and B-17 or Lancaster all that extra speed is unnecessary, particularly if it comes in an aircraft that is much more expensive than the excellent conventional designs available, and can stay in the air for far less time. I suspect the 262 night fighter may have been a response to the existing problem of the Mosquito and the imminent problem of the B-29 rather than a response to Lancasters.
One other thing to consider: Mosquito intruders took a heavy toll on LW night fighters by loitering around airfields and nailing them as they took off and landed. How would the 262, which committed it's pilot to a take-off and landing run many miles long, have fared against this tactic?