Hi Vincenzo
In terms of absolute numbers, your right, ther is no comparison. However in terms of the percentages of overall numbers, my sources say a different story.
In 1944 for example, I believe the RAF was credited with the destruction of over 800 Luftwaffe Night Fighters. Estimated strength of the Night Fighter forces was approximately 600 aircraft in that time (give or take). That means that the Luftwaffe replaced its overall Force structure at least once in that period.
In the same period, Bomber Command and its associated subordinate elements stood at about 5000 aircraft at any given time. Bomber Commands losses for 1944 were about 3000 aircraft give or take. That means that in that year Bomber Command replaced about 50% of its Force Structure in that period. That means, that as a member of the German Night Fighter Forces you were more about twice as likely to be shot down compared to the target bombers
Need remember it's common that fighter lost more plane compared with own force the fighter common flying more mission.
Some data in '44 Nachtjagd lost ~1200 fighters enemy related (my calculation on ww2.dk pages) the strenght the julliet, first was ~ 970 (this is only indicative need to do media of all months)