They built about 168,000 Merlins from all suppliers and it is inevitable some would malfunction. It IS a machine. They were built at Derby (RR), Crewe (RR) Glasgow (not sure, but I think it was a British government factory and not RR), Manchester (Ford of Britain), and by Packard in Detroit, Michigan, U.S.A..
You are making a mountain out of a molehill here, EKB. The history is written. Merlins proved to be the best engine of the European war of the liquid-cooled V-12 variety. You might as well accept it or you're trying to rewite history all by yourself. That usually doesn't generate a large numbers of supporters.
Did the Merlin have some issues? Of course, especially with continuous development happening. ALL wartime-developed engines had these issues, some less than others. Allison didn't have quite an many issues, but they weren't getting bombed, either. The Allison was some 2 years or so behind the Merlin development since we weren't on the edge of war. It was strong and robust down low but fell off about the mid-teens in altitude unless turbocharged. I think we mostly all know the issues with Allisons as this has been discussed at length in here. They were worked out, but it took time.
Meanwhile the ETO proved to be largely a high-altitude theater, probably due to European weather making many flying days into IFR conditions. When IFR, it is usually best to be higher than the mountains, so they ALL went up high except on clearer days or if it was unavoidable for some reason. The supercharger of the Merlin 2-stage units is what made the engine work so well up high. Sir Stanley Hooker helped that unit a LOT.
The Merlin DID have some issues. A P-51 (or Spitfire, etc.) would shudder and vibrate when the supercharger switched to high gear and the pilots simply throttled back and anticipated it. There was no fanfare when it shifted down to low range ... the manifold pressure just dropped. But all in all, it was a VERY good unit and outperformed the DB 601/3/5 despite being of considerably less displacement. The DB was a good engine, too, but also had wartime development issues, some of which were never completely solved.
Almost all of the Merlin's chief faults WERE completely solved. It still had some quirks, but has a solid reputation even 75 years later among people who still operate it. That lone says quite a lot.
At the Planes of Fame, we just changed one out with a long, reliable run as history. It lasted a LONG time, but I am not at liberty to post the hours. The numbers are private. Suffice to say it lasted MUCH longer than any wartime Merlin and ran very well for all that time, with few problems. I know maybe six - eight people who have had and are having that experience right now. Few problems in current service, a LONG time after it was built. The only DBs I know of that run do so only infrequently. The Merlins and Allisons fly quite regularly. We have one local here with a beautiful, very-late P-51 and he flies it almost every weekend ... with no trouble. He isn't the only local Merlin to fly very frequently, either.
You might be barking a lot about nothing much. Everyone who operated Merlins liked them in operation. They took a lot a hours to overhaul when that event came around, but active operations were good.