This sounds very funny. Since we build Allisons, we have the books and the records of overhaul ... and we talk with and sell to (mostly used to sell to these days) former WWII pilots who have Allison, Merlin, P&W, Wright, etc. - powered aircraft from WWII. For instance, we did the engines for Lefty Gardner and all the flying P-38's except the Red Bull unit.
According to our information, wartime TBO for the Allison was 250 - 400 hours depending on the dust conditions. Wartime TBO on Merlins was 200 - 300 hours depending on dust conditions. In typical wartime forward area airstrips, typical TBO was 250 hours for both.
Alllisons have cylinder liners that need no maintenance, but the Merlin needs the cylinders tightened up every 25 - 30 hours or so. Nothing tough about it but, if you DON'T do it, the Merlin will experience premature problems due to cylinder leakage. From the Merlins and Allison we operate today, both are very relaible and give plenty of warning when they are starting to want attention except in very unusualy circumstances.
I have had friends with P-51D Mustangs experience issues with a newly-overhauled Merlin at 40 hours ... and other friends who got 450 - 600 hours on them without a problem, but following recommended maintenance procedures and recommended operating procedures. We have some Allison customers with 1,200 hours on Allisons we have overhauled and most get 800+ hours on them if they take care of them and operate them properly. That is peacetime operation.
According to Lefty Gardner, Joe Foss, Bug Mahurin and others the Allisons, Merlins, Wrights, and P&W's were quite reliable and usually lasted to recommended TBO when maintained and operated properly. They almost never lasted LONGER than reconnended TBO because they were military and were taken out of service for overhaul when they reached TBO unless they were in a "squadron hack" in a combat zone.
Yes, you can kill a Merlin, Allison, or ANY big piston by not operting or maintaining it properly, and you can do it in less than 50 hours easily. I can kill an Allison in 20 minutes if I want to. When you give people aircraft and they operate them without training or even reading the book, I have no doubt the engines were a source of trouble.
At the Planes of Fame, we operate a Nakajima Sakae 21 engine in our A6M5 Model 52 Zero. It is the same engine the aircraft was captured with in 1944 and the same propeller. It was overhauled by Nakajima (now Fuji Heavy Industries) and we operate it per Nakajima recommendations. The people who had a Zero at the end of the war and never took the trouble to learn the book didn't have them long before they were unserviceable.
Engine reliability depends almost entirely on the use and maintenance of same. Dito the propellers and guns.
I flew radio control aircraft for about 18 years before stopping (would like to start again ...). Never had an enguine failure, but saw them regularly by people who didn't know how to run the 'engines. The worst thing I had happen was my tuned pipe fell off because I didn't tighten the bolts properly. I landed the plane (now a LOUD plane), retrieved the pipe, installed new bolts and flew it again within 10 minutes. Never happened again. It works for RC engines, too ... use and operate them correctly and you will have a good experience.
Treat them badly and you will be on the ground watching other people fly.