Interesting. I did "gloss" over that post. The P-43 was a Republic aircraft though, unless you were just speaking of the engine package being utilized in that aircraft. Perhaps the Air Corps did move on to the Allison to quick, trying to keep up with the trend in Europe.
I don't recall too many "war stories" of the P-40 being difficult to land. The only thing I recall reading that the British that used them had to unlearn using a 3 point landing technique as used in the Spitfire. The same article referenced that the P-40 liked to be set down on her main gear first and allowed to settle on the tail wheel. Different, but not difficult.
As far as seeing over the nose of the P-40 in a carrier situation, the British did it with the Seafire.
Recovery speed is an issue, but I don't think an issue that could not have been resolved.
The F4F was a fine carrier plane. In my eyes it is equally as important as the P-40. Both were "outdated" but both were crucial in the first part of the war for the survival of the U.S.