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I agree. It's scary stuff. My mother recently came down with Parkinson's and since I have one other relative that had it, depending on which source your reading my chances of getting it are somewhere between 1 in 7 and 50/50.It's sad that so many elderly people have dementia: It's one thing to grow old gracefully, retaining a good memory, and the ability to walk around, and eventually either dying in your sleep, or in bed, shot by a jealous spouse. It took out 2 of my grandparents (Maternal Grandfather: Parkinsons, dementia appeared in the last few years; maternal grandmother: Suffered in the 2000's -- 2004-2005 -- and died in early June), my paternal grandfather died from causes unrelated to dementia (and possibly died before it ever surfaced, he was 80 years old), and my paternal grandmother has some signs of it (b. 1928).
Our memories make us who we are, and, as they say: If you break your arm, your still you; you break your brain: You're not you. Scary stuff.
About a year or two ago, I saw an elderly man with a hat that had U.S.A.A.F. written on it, exiting the pool. Almost immediately I said "you served prior to 1947...", he seemed surprised that I knew that, and I told him I was an aviation buff. Since he had a pin of sorts on his hat that had a marking that indicated he served in the 15th Air Force. It turned out he worked on B-24's and, at least some of his work involved ECM. Either way, he was pretty alert for an elderly individual, and said that after he served, he went to college on the G.I. bill, and stuff.
Being that I was heavily raised by my maternal grandparents, I've always had a good respect for the elderly (a lot of people my age don't, unfortunately), and everybody's life is a story unto itself (sometimes a whole bunch of them).
Well, a day or two ago (June 27?), I was at the pool and looking at the bulletin board. They have all sorts of stuff like when the pool hours change from 06:45 to 07:45 (already done), to when they shift back to 06:45 (in August), other stuff about when concerts are in town, an automotive display somewhere, and I was talking to a guy about some stuff, and somehow it segued into aviation, and he was surprised that I was knowledgeable about aviation history particularly WWII, and wanted to introduce me to his grandfather.
When he did, it was the same guy I met a year or two earlier. As I talked to him, he had some strange mannerisms, and a tendency to repeat himself. He seems to have dementia, which his son confirmed, and apparently has had it to some degree for several years (it just wasn't noteworthy when I met him): When I was talking to the son, I mentioned that my grandmother (the one that died earlier this month), when she first had dementia, it seemed as if she was just suffering some temporary loopiness, but when she started misplacing things (she put a burger in the pantry, and forgot that she placed it there; she would then wonder how the hell a burger ended up there).
He's the same age as Bill Runnels was (b. 1925), but is still alive.
Saddens me to read your father is having such troubles. Seems so unjust, people work hard all there lives and try to do the right thing( at least most of us) and then they are all to often beset by such difficulties. I wish things were different. I'm sure we all do.my 95 year old father is getting there, he tells me he knows what he wants to say but just can't seem to get it out. STill fully functional,mows the lawn,drives a short distance to Walmart and Home Depot. He gets extremely frustrated with himself. Confuses French with Polish,German and English sometimes and just the other day called me by a friend of the family first name instead of mine...Sad
Well beyond "extremely so"! Mom didn't have dementia but several mild strokes had taken their toll on her mental facilities. After about her third or fourth I went to the hospital to visit her. Walking into her room I said, "Hi Mon how are you feeling today?" She looked quizzically at me and said, "Who are you?" Totally taken aback I stammered, "Mom it's me, Mike, I'm your son." She looked down and said, (and the words are forever etched in my brain) "I'm sorry but I don't know who you are, but then, I don't know who I am either"
I'm in a new country, everyone's name is Mate, how lucky am I.........?
and I'm going to be 76 in June. And my last car is a biggass 6.2L V8!