Soren you're right, I don't know where Bill was going with that, except weight for weight the P-51 was stronger, but even so strenght in terms of ability to withstand loads is different than the ability to withstand battle damage or heavy shock.
Bill simply said it was possible, depending on location (i.e away from spar, outboard of guns) and strees condition (ie manuever situation with associated loads) to survive a 30mm hit - no more - no less
Some uninformed people for example will assume that since the F4F could take a hell of a lot of damage while the Zero was very fragile (in terms of damage or shock resistance) would mean the Wildcat could take more G's, but in reality the Zero had a quite strong structure for its weight and for this type of loading. (it could probably pull more G's than the Wildcat, and the Ki 43 moreso, but the Zero's frame was not good with aerodynamic loads high speeds though reaching the structural limit well before compressibility at a little over 410 mph)
Though in this case the P-51 does have a fairly tough airframe in terms of construction. (quite a bit tougher than say a spitfire, engine vulnerability aside)
The Spit was stressed at 11G Ultimate, 51D at 12G ultimate ~ 9% higher load capability.
But that first pic of the P-51 Bill posted realy doesn't look like a 30mm hit (even for a normal HE round) but more like a 20mm mine shell hit.
You may go back and note that the 51B was a 20mm flak hit
The bottom pic with 1/2 the fin ripped off could have been a 30mm hit near the tip of the fin.
You may go back and note that it was believed to be a 37/40mm flak hit on 44-72253 WR-Bbar - on the deck and he survived a snap roll on Mar 22, 1944 around Munich area
And a wingtip hit from a mine round (that detonated) may not have been a definite kill but it probably wouldn't have left the P-51 in fighting condition.
Depends - if it lost an aileron you are right. If it was say, on the Star and missed damaging the spar badly enough to lose the outboard wing tip area, and aileron still worked, it was still probably able to fly and manuever
Again, Soren do you know the mix of ammo that the Me 262 carried?