Here is the thing, This will not be done in an afternoon. several weeks is more the norm.
O.K., in a nut shell, Remove the kit from the packaging, wash it in a mild dishwashing soap. This removes oils that are present in the molding process. You can pat dry with a soft cloth, or sun dry. Study the instructions, usually as these things are drying. Clip the parts from the sprues using a set of nail clippers, or a more advanced "sprue nipper" (Sold at the local hobby store, or available on-line). Follow the instructions, (at least at this point, later you will know when to deviate,) and test fit all parts. Let me say this again, test fit all parts. Place them together without glue to see how they fit. O.K., let me say that again, Test fit!!!!
Sometimes the "pins" aren't "on". If they aren't,... well cut them off, and fit the bits together as they should be.
Now, That you have fit the parts, and they look good, It is time to glue. Use a liquid glue, not that tube stuff. Put some into a cup and use a toothpick to apply. don't be afraid to apply too much to the seams, you want a good "bead' along the edges. If everything is lined up right, this bead is just what you want. Patience is the key. You can use various clips and rubber bands to hold the parts together, and in place. Wait about 24 hours to be sure that the glue has dried.
Carefully shave off the "bead' that is from the glue joint with a sharp #11 X-acto, or something similar, then inspect for imperfections, (and there will be some.), Fill any of those with a putty, and then sand. And sand again. Then sand some more, with progressivily finer grades of paper. (Most of us use 1200 grit to finish.) You can use a brush to paint, this is not a problem. Remember to use a fine cloth to wipe the model down, or wash it again before trying to paint. A primer coat is recommended. This helps to identify any imperfections on the surface before the initial coat goes on. If you see any, use a bit of putty and sand, and sand, and sand again. Then paint with the primer and if satisfied try the color.
Once you are satisfied with the paint color, an application of Future acrylic is recommended. This provides a smooth surface for the decals to "fix", Then a coat of "matte" and you are done.
Unless you want to do some "weathering". That is a whole 'nother thing.
That about covers it, I think.
If anyone comes up with a couple of other points, please feel free to add.