Glider
Captain
A couple of small points.Comparing some IJN vs RN destroyer classes
IJN
Fubuki (1928 - 24 built) 6 x 5" guns, 9 x torpedo tubes, 18 x torpedoes, 18 x depth charges, 38 knots
Akatsuki (1932 - 4 built) 6 x 5" guns, 9 x Torpedo tubes, 18 x torpedoes, 18 x depth charges, 38 knots
Hatsuharu (1931 - 6 built) 4 x 5" guns, 6 x torpedo tubes, 18 x depth charges, 36 knots
Shiratsuyu - (1933 - 10 built), 5 x 5" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 16 x torpedoes, 16 x depth charges, 33 knots
Asashio - (1937 - 10 built), 6 x 5" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 16 x torpedoes, 36 x depth charges, 35 knots
Kagero - (1939 - 19 built), 6 x 5" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 16 x torpedoes, 36 x depth charges 35.5 knots
RN
A-Class (1924 - 20 built) 4 x 4.7" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 35 knots
D-Class (1930 - 20 built) 4 x 4.7" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 20 depth charges, 36 knots
H-Class 1934 - 24 built) 4 x 4.7" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 20 x depth charges, 35.5 knots
Tribal Class (1938 - 27 built) 8 x 4.7" guns, 4 x torpedo tubes, 20 x depth charges, 36 knots
J-K-N Classes (1937 - 24 built) 6 x 4.7" guns, 8 x torpedo tubes, 2 launchers for dc, 36 knots
Overall, on balance, it looks to me like the IJN destroyers are a bit more heavily armed, though it is pretty close. But of course, the IJN torpedoes are faster and have a good bit better range.
a) The LM Class are missing from your list I think 16 built
b) The numbers. Japanese Destroyers 73 built, RN Destroyers 131 built (including LM)