Sometimes decisions are made for many reasons. some large and some small.
Whilst I agree with all of that I can only say that weight does not appear in any of the discussions which I know of prior to the issue of F.9/35. That doesn't mean it didn't happen.
I believe that it was the fundamental change in the concept of the turret fighter from a twin to a single engine type which was the basis for the decision to delete forward firing armament. A midships turret on a single engine type could never cover the 'forward hemisphere' for obvious reasons. It was this that resulted in the overturning of several years of thinking about turret fighters, really as a simple economic expedient. The only option would be fixed wing mounted armament of some type and not everyone was convinced that this was the right type of armament for any fighter at the time. It was just easier to delete it and justify it with some nonsense about splitting the armament.
As for control, imagine the problems with some of the earlier concepts in which not only would different armament be brought to bear in different scenarios, but control of the aircraft would pass between two different pilot/gunners (and positions) depending on that scenario.
Ellington (again)
"What I think is wanted is an aeroplane that can be fought against attack from both the front and from behind in formation; and for this a two pilot aircraft is required, so that one pilot can maintain the place of his aircraft in the formation while the other fights the front or rear gun or guns as the case may be."
We could have lost the war
As a BTW this obsession with rigid formation fighting, principally in an effort to multiply the fire power of individual aircraft, which was deemed inadequate, continued to effect the tactics for the fixed gun single seat aircraft at the beginning of WW2. The various rigidly controlled fighter attacks that all RAF pilots learned as part of 'Fighting Area' tactics are a reflection of this.
Cheers
Steve