First things first, nukes are not all that powerful. They explode in a sphere and most of the energy is wasted.
Yes they are, equivalent to an awful lot of conventional explosives. All uncontained explosions explode in this way. I'm not sure what your point is.
Then there is the heat making for a significant non survivable radius, even for the types used against Japan. The radiation poisoning wasn't to clever for the victims either.
Luckily they were powerful enough to ensure a swift surrender, something all the conventional bombing had notably failed to do.
Cheers
Steve