I hate to sound like a broken record but....
Do we have historical data to support that statement? For instance:
?? x .50cal bullet hits required on average to down a Fw-190A
?? x .50cal bullet hits required on average to down a Me-109G.
Looking at bullets required to actually what's vulnerable probably isn't going to reveal itself in statistics.
Most combat reports look to require similar amounts of bullets, partly because of aim and the conditions of the combat.
I do know the 109 had radiators at the wing roots and while getting hit their isn't likely to bring the engine to an immediate stop it probably gave the pilot a limited time to react to the damage.
A hit in the engine block will have the same effect for either engine, probably killing a cylinder or two. V engines would then also leak coolant into other parts of the engine as a consequence of a cracked block. It would make for ruff running if still managed to run at all. I don't think a radial had to deal with that issue, because excess oil would just burn off but the oil would leak out just the same on both engines. You probably had more time with an oil leak than a coolant leak, particularly in the engine block.
The plane would be doomed either way, but if getting back to base was a goal, then radial had a better chance.
V engines also have headers and cam shafts that if hit could drop a whole row of cylinders, and that would kill the engine instantly.
The way the radial is engineered each cylinder is isolated which probably adds to its durability aside from a lack of cooling system.
As for performance that just depends on displacement.
Reliability probably also went to the radial, just less parts to worry about. I know the R-2800 was used as an aero engine well into the 70's for this reason.
When i was reading up on the Allison and Merlin, i stumbled on a racing boat site that mentioned there use. There was a lot of surpluss engines during the 1950s and 60s, which many boat racers used. They'd also run them at 4000-5000 rpm. and the Allison was said to be better for that than the Merlin. I'm not sure you could even attempt that with a radial so there is probably more flexibility with V engine so long as what ever it was going on had room for a cooling system.