My great-Uncle, who missed making history because his P-36 had no ammunition that morning, insisted that he would have happily flown the P-36 into battle instead of the P-39 (which he hated with a passion) or his P-38.
He and other pilots liked the P-36's handling and performance - it's only shortcomings were it's light armament and lack of armor and self sealing tanks.
Bottom line, is that it was a magnificent fighter for it's time, but that time had come and gone, as with most things.
I agree, I am a fan of the P-36. It's excellent maneuverability plus good high speed handling (and high terminal dive speed) made it an unusually good fighter for it's time. These traits came over to some extent to the P-40 of course, which is why that plane did so well in spite of some serious flaws. And why it was so often liked by (many, if not all) pilots even when disliked by higher ranking officers and war-planners.
I do also think that we need to consider aircraft within their own times. The A6M was an excellent fighter in 1941 and 1942, it was dated by 1943 and obsolescent in 1944 or 1945. But that doesn't make it a bad fighter.
For that most WW2 fighters were shoved down a notch with the appearance of Jet fighters in some numbers in 1944, even with all of their flaws and limitations. That doesn't make the P-51 or Spitfire or Fw 190 bad planes - even if they had built 10,000 Me 262s instead of just 1400.