I have read the Rand Corp stuff and some is valid ... some is not.
I've been trying to find out if the scenarios suggested by Riccione are likely, and can't find anything about it, But if they DO go and hang external ordnance on the F-35, then the Su-27 / MiG-29s of the world CAN find it an shoot it down. So I hope they employ it sensibly ... and sensible employment has been a problem for the U.S.A. since about 1968 or so in Viet Nam.
I'd believe in the F-35 if the pilots and squadrons are allowed to plan their fight. If the White House is going to plan the fight, like they did in Viet Nam, we're probably doomed. I think it will be OK if the politicians give the Military a task and then back off and let them plan and exceute the task.
It is probably a political thing, but I think we should avoid the crap out of "police actions." If we are going to fight and die it is war. Declare it and fight it according to Geneva Convention, and then enforce harsh penalties after the war for violations of same on any side. Alternatively, come up with a document that can be signed by everyone, like the Geneva convention, for limited skirmishes.
No particular disrespect for the office of the president, but I have been in 2 military services and would decline to go anywhere I don't have the right to return fire at any time. I don't buy into "rules of engagement." If someone shoots at me, I demand the right to return fire and escalate as required until the threat is eliminated. Otherwise I have no interest in participating in the fight and would decline to serve again. I'd serve the COUNTRY, but not a military service who wants me to get shot at and not respond in kind.
Civilized response work only when both sides are civilized. Otherwise, the only thing understood is a big stick.