Having said that, let's all try and have a thicker skin. Life's too short to get upset over everything, especially in a world where we all have different opinions.
My daughter-in-law got a lesson in this when she first moved down to North Carolina. She got a part-time job at a business off base, and was getting along great with her co-workers, also military spouses, until she let slip that she was Mrs. LOOTENANT Boeser.