Well without being a whiny b***h about it lets say I have had my fill of some members and no longer feel welcome in group activities. I am drawing back my participation as it is apparently okay for non admins to both criticize AND freely participate in the very activity they are critical of others for. Its the kind of double standard I expect on social platforms like Facebook but had thought to avoid here. This has been a stellar group to participate in but honestly I don't have the energy for childish folks anymore. And it only takes one, especially when they are persistent and pervasive and apparently unchecked.