Wayne, I don't know how to express this. Here I sit at my PC with my eyes tearing up for someone I've never met, never spoken to and don't think I've even seen a picture of. Yet something, a part of me, goes out to you and your mum, hoping for the best and if not, then for the least trouble and pain. You both have become a part - albiet a small part - of this 50 yr old New Jersey resident's life. The internet is an amazing thing and maybe this is the true purpose - to find a shoulder to lean on. We're here for you both.