I played golf with a cheerful 78-year-old man. He was giving me life tips all the time.
Finally he said... don't say anything to me in the car park. My wife picks up me and she thinks I went deaf 5 years ago.
What a wonderful man....
John Cleese of MP fame provided a memorable quote not long ago, on the subject of "Wokeness" in response to some modern day outrage over an old MP skit.
"You refuse to control your emotions and instead expect everyone else to control their actions."