I'm a contributing member of a couple other forums. They take on personalities like small close-knit communities and the internal spam resistance underground gets hugely over-wrought about spam like it's some invasion of privacy on private turf. It's a public internet site though. I can see getting a bit put off but not equating it to some kind of home invasion burglary. Take care of it like a routine chore and go back to biz as usual. No need to blow a jug over it.