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Do you (or anyone) remember when CAPT Miller wouldn't let his Sgt be part of the assault of the 'lone' MG emplacement (near a bombed out radar station)? This occurred the day after he and his Sgt discussed the men they knew (and lost) the night they slept in the Church? I believe that Miller was tired of his men dying and was ready to end it all right then and there. That the discussion brought forth what he had been able to repress up until then. So he insisted that he would go up the middle. He left the Sgt out so he would be able to lead his men if he was killed.
Every father in my neighborhood (except two, my father who was blind in his R eye, and the other served in Korea) served in some capacity during WWII. None, and I mean none, ever volunteered any discussion of their part. The one I remember most (found out later while in my 20s) was a Marine rifleman who fought in 3 campaigns; Guadalcanal, Tarawa and Pelelieu. He was in the process of climbing into a Duce and a Half when he slipped and broke his tail bone (full pack, extra ammo and M1 Garand). The trucks were taking the Marines to an LST . . . bound for Iwo Jima. Instead, he was put on a hospital ship destined for Hawaii. Every man in his company was killed! I was told by his daughter that he suffered from survivors' guilt. Most served in the Army, but there were two pilots; a Marine who flew F4F and F4U-1D and the other B-17s in Europe. In later years the Marine aviator began to talk about his experiences. But we were older then.