Vassili Zaitzev
Master Sergeant
Sorry to hear that Thor, hope everything turns out for the better. Freebird, that sucks, sorry to hear that also.
I could be MIA for a while
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wilbur1
Tech Sergeant
Sorry to hear about this Thor. Chin up and knuckle down and youll pull through
I will re-iterate what several have said already, been there a few years ago myself and at the time I was thinking a Hollywood writer couldn't come up with a script like this. Just hang tough, be ready for battle and have all of your ducks in a row when the court dates arrive and it will work out.
Njaco
The Pop-Tart Whisperer
Stay focused and hang in there. I've been through this! Just keep your head together and it will work itself out.
My ex was unemployed and homeless (how - with me giveing her $300 a week!) and I got the kids. I filed for primary custody and we went to court. She lied and said she was living with her father. So the Judge granted her the kids , to be exchanged at his place at a certain time and date. Well, her father and I were tight and we both knew she wasn't living there. On the day of the exchange I had a police officer witness her drive up to her father's house, the kids got out of mine and into hers and she drove away. I told the officer to record it and within the next week with the officer's report and letters supporting me from HER father and sister, I was able to get them back.
Its rough but you can do it!
My ex was unemployed and homeless (how - with me giveing her $300 a week!) and I got the kids. I filed for primary custody and we went to court. She lied and said she was living with her father. So the Judge granted her the kids , to be exchanged at his place at a certain time and date. Well, her father and I were tight and we both knew she wasn't living there. On the day of the exchange I had a police officer witness her drive up to her father's house, the kids got out of mine and into hers and she drove away. I told the officer to record it and within the next week with the officer's report and letters supporting me from HER father and sister, I was able to get them back.
Its rough but you can do it!
Ferdinand Foch
Staff Sergeant
Hey Thor, I'm sorry about what your going through. Hang in there though, were all here for you.
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Thorlifter
Captain
Well, the trial is in two days. That will either be a great day of joy or I will be filing bankruptcy just to pay for the increased child support for the next 5.5 years.
I'm so nervous I could chew through steel right now. I'm sitting here shaking I'm so nervous.
The part that pisses me off is my ex mother-in-law just called me, drunk at noon, saying how she was going to testify against me. I have so much dirt on this stupid lady it's not funny. Well, I'll let you guys know..........
I'm so nervous I could chew through steel right now. I'm sitting here shaking I'm so nervous.
The part that pisses me off is my ex mother-in-law just called me, drunk at noon, saying how she was going to testify against me. I have so much dirt on this stupid lady it's not funny. Well, I'll let you guys know..........
Vassili Zaitzev
Master Sergeant
Good luck Thor, we're all here for you. Hope you win the case.
Lucky13
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I wish you all the very best of luck mate, I'm sure that it'll work just fine for you! 
DUDE, TAPE THAT STUFF! IT'S GOLD FOR YOUR CASE!
Every little bit helps. While it is illegal to tape someone, it isn't illegal to have the call on speaker phone, taping a message to yourself and leave it on when they call. Just make sure you start taping something else on the machine before you say hello.
Good luck!
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Thorlifter
Captain
Yeah, she was nice enough to leave me a voicemail! hahahaha
ToughOmbre
Senior Master Sergeant
Hang in there Thor. Hope things work out.
TO
TO
Oh yeah, that's gonna go over real well with a Judge.
"Your Honor, this voice mail was left on my client's voice mail by his ex-mother in law. It goes to our point about mental and moral fitness. Further, your Honor, what sane person is drunk at noon in April? Too early for football..."
I'm not even a lawyer and I think I can win this one.
Good luck Roland, hope things go well for you man!
Njaco
The Pop-Tart Whisperer
Man, Good luck and high spirits! The courts are changing their tune the last decade or so - its not always the mother's perogative.
As far as taping, check your laws. Some states allow only one party to know they are being taped and not the other while some - like New Jersey - make it totally illegal.
As far as taping, check your laws. Some states allow only one party to know they are being taped and not the other while some - like New Jersey - make it totally illegal.
RabidAlien
1st Lieutenant
Our prayers for ya, bro. I've always hated "the woman is right by default" mentality of the courts. Hope they let ya play your voicemail!!! Heck, if it went to voicemail, she can't argue that she didn't know it was being taped...that's what voicemail is for!!!
beaupower32
Tech Sergeant
Best of luck to ya. I say everyone here at the forums show up to your court hearing and raise hell. Well, maybe not raise hell, but say how much of a kick ass guy you are. Again, best of luck to ya. Give them hell, and be sure to smile when doing it. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Catch22
Major
Good luck Thor!
109ROAMING
2nd Lieutenant
Best of luck mate! I really hear where your coming from
Hang in there and best of luck!
Hang in there and best of luck!
mkloby
Senior Master Sergeant
Best of luck buddy...
