********UPDATE*******
I'm back from court. Well, I won.........sort of. Right now, things are not going to change. However, next week, the courts want to interview my daughters to get things from them first hand. The courts will then make their recommendation to the judge, who will usually take their recommendation. It turns out my ex didn't tell her lawyer ALL the bad sh!t that she has been up to and it caught him completely off guard. My lawyer said he just can't see a way they will allow her to keep my youngest and as it turns out, I may end up with both of my daughters.
All in all, it's a GREAT day. Thanks again to all who said their prayers and offered well wishes.