My god Maestro you really don't know women at all, do you!
Ok there are ( as CC put it 'so' well...elsewhere) bounderies, but :
A high % of women do NOT go for looks, most have there 'fetish'..... eyes, bums, chunky, smile, wearing a suit/ or a uniform ( well that one was- first on the list for several girls at work
), which catch their eye first.
I have never heard a female say they are interested in a male because he looked sexy, or was packing a large bulge, and I know alot of women and have worked with thousands.
Many women I know ( mostly late 20s early 30s), still go for weird and wonderful types.
So Maestro.... is this good news to your ears.... or bad???
Take my advice.... 'listening' to a psychiatrist is a bit like trusting what you read in a newspaper.
Here is an example Maestro:
A Male pin up... I know which one I found most attractive (physically) from the Mug shots. But it wouldn't be who I would pick as a pin up.... I already knew who that would be before the pics were put up.......... and I haven't changed my mind