mikewint
Captain
CaptVick, loss and grief are universal to the entire human species, and every individual deals with it in their own unique way. to me it is what makes us so endlessly facinating. we are all so identical and have identical problems yet there are 20 billion different solutions to those same problems.
Shinpachi, i think i understood you, each of us is 50-50 though it is sometimes difficult to appreciate the mix until others point out that what you thought was pure you is actually from one of your parents. i look at my children and see parts of their mother and parts of me and how they have melded those parts into something that is unique to them. so yes, my mother and dad are alive in me but as i said, how wonderful it would be to see and be with them just one more time
Shinpachi, i think i understood you, each of us is 50-50 though it is sometimes difficult to appreciate the mix until others point out that what you thought was pure you is actually from one of your parents. i look at my children and see parts of their mother and parts of me and how they have melded those parts into something that is unique to them. so yes, my mother and dad are alive in me but as i said, how wonderful it would be to see and be with them just one more time