Getting an old pestilen...sorry, colleague - back today.
She's the real sneaky kind, who at first is incredibly "friendly" and "warm" - and then spreads untrue rumours about colleagues, she loves to harass one particular colleague constantly, accusing her of untrue things behind her back.
GOD I HATE working with a backstabber/a$$licker like that! Unfortunately said colleague has latched onto me, of all people, as "someone who's alright" - and I just can't
stand her, plus I certainly don't trust her.
God, she wanted to hug me good morning when I got to work today - I planted a flat hand in her chest just below the neck to stop her and said "We're not
that good friends!"
Fortunately our boss is aware of the problem, and is keeping a very watchful eye on things before they get out of hand.
And hopefully before I explode. And I really do
mean explode, complete with dents in the roof, sulphur fumes and all.
The worst thing?
I
have to work together with the %¤%¤# now.
I just
pray that we get rid of her...
fast.
I prefer to deal with others matter-of-factly - if I or another makes a mistake or accidentally hurt someone else, we talk it out, quietly and directly, like in: A: "Hey, you farked up there!" B: "Sorry 'bout that, it won't happen again" and then we talk it over, end of story.
But backstabbing and not being honest - I can't
stand it.
If said colleague continues with her "friendliness" tomorrow, I'll tell her
why I'm having a problem with her, and then that she's tolerated, but only barely so - and that she's on "probation" when it comes to me, and that's it.
EDIT: And now you know why I
hate working together with many women.
Yes, there are also male bi%¤3s, but with most men, you get the trouble the straightforward way, not the roundabout way.